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Elana ShyongCreative facilitator & trainer

The Power of Yohaku

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Elana in a red kimono speaking on stage at Bansko Nomad Fest beside a slide titled โ€œThe Power of Yohakuโ€

๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€, ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ธ ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ, ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜, ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฎ๐˜„๐—ธ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜?

At Bansko Nomad Fest just last week, there was so many brilliant talks. One talk that stuck with me in particular was by SHOKO HIROSE on The Power of Yohaku, the Japanese concept roughly translating to โ€œthe beauty of empty spacesโ€.

It refers to the deliberate use of empty space to create balance and meaning. It stayed with me, for a few different reasons.

As a Taiwanese American, Iโ€™ve grown up living with more than one communication style, and thatโ€™s shaped how I listen. Moving between high culture contexts, and low culture contexts, I often adjust the way I communicate either to be more nuanced, or to have stronger clarity.

Neither feels strange, nor one right or the other.

They just tell me that people are coming from different cultural habits, different levels of comfort, and different ways of thinking things through.

Thatโ€™s made me much more aware of what is happening under the surface in a room.

Silence can mean a lot of things.

Sometimes itโ€™s respect.

Sometimes itโ€™s reflection.

Sometimes itโ€™s someone making sure theyโ€™ve understood properly before they speak.

And because I have moved between these worlds in my multicultural upbringing, and also now in my professional life, Iโ€™ve learned not to rush to interpret silence too quickly.

Itโ€™s often where the real thinking happens.

So, how do we design to celebrate that silence?

\๐Ÿญ. ๐—š๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ. A simple โ€œtake a moment to thinkโ€ or โ€œIโ€™m going to give us one minute before we shareโ€ changes the whole atmosphere. People relax. They stop feeling like they need to fill space immediately. They get a chance to gather their thoughts rather than react on the spot.

\๐Ÿฎ. ๐——๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฑ. Not everyone thinks best by speaking. Some people need to write first. Some are clearer in pairs. Some will say more if thereโ€™s a sticky note on the table, or a digital board, or a prompt they can reflect on quietly before opening up. When we give people options, weโ€™re much more likely to hear what they actually want to say.

Emptiness is actually full of possibility. Itโ€™s about what can emerge in the space if weโ€™re willing to wait, notice, and design for it.

For me, that connects directly to intercultural work, facilitation, and leadership. The silence tells us something. The pause tells us something. The job is to know how to listen for it.

#interculturalcommunication #culturalawareness #facilitation #inclusion #yohaku #theculturemap #communication #leadership #workshopdesign #globalmindset

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